One should not correct others before mending his own ways.
that was then, this is now, times have changed;
reach the same goal by different means; All roads lead to Rome;
Self-help is better than help from others; Applying to others for help is not as good as applying to oneself;
to seek common ground on major issues while reserving differences on minor ones
jiāng
shān
rú
cǐ
duō
jiāo
The landscape are so many tenderly.