share sb.'s joys and sorrows; go through thick and thin together;
Fame is like the sun and the moon
People with moral cultivation do not hold past grudges in their hearts.
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A hedge between keeps friendship green.
The gentleman knows what is right.
listen to what a person says and watch he does.
